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How Slowing Down Helps Improve Your Wellness and Mental Health

When you are used to living in a fast-paced environment, and a society that judges people's performance and productivity based on how “busy” they are, it becomes easy to get caught up in the hype of the hustle and bustle. But like always, we have to pause and ask ourselves how well is my current pace serving me? Have a check-in with yourself every once in a while, and see if you are truly meeting your own wellness need and goals or simply pushing yourself through all the noise of the day to day. 

Vanity.

I had to decide, again in that moment. Is this what we are about to do E? Are we about to beat ourself up or change the narrative. I decided to tell myself, you know what it’s okay to be concerned (not worried) about how the final appearance and outcome of your legs will be. But for now, we are still healing. Let’s heal and then cross that bridge when we get there.

The Power of Language

When I sat on the couch of my therapist’s office and said those words out loud, I was overwhelmed by the flood of emotions that immediately followed those words. It was a liberating release. It was me stepping into the true realization that my son was dead and would never come back. It was the feeling of regaining control of how I was feeling and experiencing my loss and taking back that power from grief through the use of language.